March 30, 2009

born tomorrow 29 years ago

Salam my pretty readers,

Today is the second last day of March and as tomorrow is the last day of March, it was also the day my mom gave birth to me in the year 1980! ..kih kih..

Who would've thought (not even my parents) that before i reach the age of two nine, i am a single parent??!! ..hehe.. But heck, i am loving it people!!

In 3 words, i can sum up what i've learned about life - It Goes On! It sho does!! LOL.. What doesnt kill ya only makes ya stronger aight??!! When i'm in an unfavourable state, i always try to visualize and think of those who are struggling a greater battle than i am! Yes, i am a single mother, but at least i have a job and i can always count on my family -love you guys!- and other single mothers are working their butt off for a pity amount to feed their child/children. I will always try to count on what i have not on what i want or dont have - tho i so want a bag or two or three! Alhamdulillah.. i am fortunate to have everything that i own and have been where i had been! ngeee...

Being in this position, i also learned that whining wont -and i repeat- wont get you anywhere!! I mean not emotionally nor physically (duhh!)!! Faith, that is what i always or at least try to always have, although i always keep in mind that faith would not make things easier but it'll make things possible ..hihi.. ye la kan, you gotta work it to earn it honeh! no pain no gain la katakan! ..keh keh..

Skarang ni that i have Khalish all by myself (on agreement yadda yadda..), everyday is a gift, even if it sucks, its still a gift only a sucky one! LOL Reaching the age of two nine, it has been a while since i kept in mind that those who gossip to me will gossip about me! Well, thats a reminder i made to myself just to be on the safe side ..keh keh.. thus i only say what i mean - and for that i am an honest-and-not-a-kiss-ass person! Being an honest-not-a-kiss-ass person taught me not to believe everything that i hear simply because some day the story will be about me ..muahaha!!

Sumone wise told me " Always always count your blessings Yaya, never on your troubles. Love all that you can thus give all that you have. Smile away your days and dream away your nights. Life is a wonderful thing! " . To this particular person, you know who you are and for those inspiring and wise words, i thank you!

The end.

21 comments:

zarazaznan said...

hepi bday in advance dr.yaya...
u kno who u better but wat people said bad thing bout u just take it as a medicine to make u stay calm & sustain (u kan dokter, ahaaks)silently. ups & downs of life is always happen, all u need to do is 'sabar'...

thanks to be here & there for me dr.yaya.......

ellain said...

heppy bufday kk yaya...
may Allah swt bless u forever..
hope u happy wif khalish..

:: vErde+hAzizi :: said...

salam...
hey babe...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY GORGEOUS!!!

wish u wonderful years ahead bless wi good health, wealth & happiness ;)

love love!

yaya othman said...

thank you all! really appreciate it!

yellowrose said...

hepy bday dr yaya!
love ur blog.
*drooling over the gorgeous handbag*

emy naquib said...

yo babe!
happy birthday!
all af us are imperfact mortals.. especially in other people's eyes.. therefore, it will always be someone looking down on us and talking bad about us...just accept it as a normal thing coz we ourselves are talking bad about other people too !!! hihihi...
cheers Ya !

Akma M.Rudy said...

happy bday in advance dearie!

wish u all the best in what eva u do..and may ALLAH bless u always..
ps : hehehe x sangka rupanya kita sebaya..i was tot u mcm mude belia je dr i...cute! ;p

Neeza said...

Happy Birthday Dr Yaya =) May joy, happiness & 'barakah' be with u alwez (mine was 2 days ago). It's great to have u in this blogging world (thou I din haf one..LOL).

yaya othman said...

yellowrose : TQ for th wish! i myself jugak am drooling! hehe

Emy : Thnk you Emy for stopping by! and thank you for the wish! Yes we are indeed imperfect mortals!

Akma : TQ beb! muda belia? aisehh manade! hihi

Neeze : TQ and happy belated birthday to you dear! xoxo

Naddy said...

happy birthday... best wishes :)

Fynnaz said...

Happy birthday in advance Yaya!

bUL4N said...

u're 29 and hv a 3 year old smart, adorable, gorgeous son....I would kill to hv that k long!!
(I think there aren't enough words to describe khalish)

yaya othman said...

thank you naddy and fynnaz! really appreciate it!

to angoh : thank you! i am so glad to have u as my dearest cousin! and khalish pun is so blessed to his ma Moony!

Azma Sulaiman said...

Salam Yaya,
Happy Birthday...

I hope you will always happy with your handsome Khalish and your family. They alwaz be with u.. and offcoz i am pretty shocked while know this new news as i've been follow your life since at fotopages.
Nway, may Allah bless you n your son forever. Have a wonderful life!!!

Mrs LVoe said...

happy birthday dear :-)

nilli said...

hi yaya..heppy beday...ingat aku lagik :-)

Anonymous said...

hepy besday.....


East Pacific ape kabar :)
semoga tabah menghadapi hari2 mendatang.......Insyaalah!!!!!

Ina Noor said...

HAPPY belated BIRTHDAY YAYA! hehe lambat gila wish.

mygoshh its been almost 2yrs since u 1st left a comment on my blog (that micheal douglas entry, igt tak? hehe) n ive been stalking u since then ;P of course i dnt noe u very well but i noe that ur a good person and a FAB mama n u deserve good things in life n insyaAllah, u'll get many more of them :)

enjoy being 29 yaya. nxt year w/ the big zero HAHA <-- sajeje kejam

yaya othman said...

Azma : TQ! Yes a lot has happened, it made me stronger! :)

Sha : TQ honeh!

Nilli : TQ! Mesti la aku hingat!!

Anonymous : TQ. EPL still going strong!

Ina : O yes, i remeber that entry of urs with Michael Douglas! I asked you whether his wife was there too kan? hihi, dh 2thn? wow!! Thnx for the bday wish hon :)
p.s. Big zero? LOL

Anonymous said...

accidently read ur blog, thought u was someone i known but not, read bout ur ups n downs...be strong girl...u can make it, even heard all ur playlist songs, hey..may i suggest one more songs to be added ? "stop your sobbing" by the pretenders, u may love it...

IreneYaya said...

Yaya! Happy belated birthday! Just got to know oso. ;)