hello pretty people,
Today its yaya-being-chatty-crappy day ;) So here goes (pardon the bad sequences of the writings since i am crappy).
Have you ever wish you could turn back time and fix something right? Have you? How many things/incidents would you like to fix? If you can fix it, would it make a difference in your life now? Would it make a big impact and impression? Does the fixing thing involves only you or does it involves other(s)?
Everyone has made poor choices or done something in their past that could possibly be labeled as "regrettable." But, think about it. The fact that you are now able to look back and realize that a mistake or mis-step occurred means you have learned a valuable lesson. Some of my choices may have landed me in unpleasant circumstances, but experiencing these things certainly built my current character. I wouldn't be where I am today if it weren't for those character-building situations. Mistakes are stepping stones to an evolving life. No need for you to sink into regret or despair -- keep your chin up.
When i evaluate my life now, i would concur that i am what i wanted to be. YES! I have always wanted to be a doctor, it wouldnt matter what sort of doctor, be it foot doctor or neck doctor. Today, i can consider myself successful as a dental surgeon (cukup2 makan la), happy, healthy, strong and confident. And there is nothing i would change! Nope, there is nothing i would change ;) for what i've gone through, what i've decided on made the person that i am now!
I have had many ups and downs, been here and there; and all of these roller coaster mazes made me realise that if i werent to do that, i wouldnt be this or if i werent to accept those, i wouldnt have these! Just like that Sinatra song "mistakes, ive had a few, but then again, too few to mention".
Take my failed marriage for instance, if i were not to be married with my X, i would never have been blessed with a wonderful son, Khalish who is by far the closest person to my heart. I believe that if you could accept and forgive, you will become a happy and satisfied person :) Life's better when you are satisfied!
Forgive and move on, even if it is the hardest and most impossible thing to do - make ammend! Some backstabber did some backstabbing and it broke my heart into pieces. I was at my most bottom, devastated but i learned that if you keep your anger and hatred inside you, you wont be free, you wont be able to wake up and walk your normal pace. So, i gathered every strength and focus in me, and i said to myself "i forgive you! i forgive you, you weird and psycho person! Nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes." LOL Like magic, i felt better!! It was an experience for me - well, experience is something you dont get until just after you need it! - now i am experienced! ..keh keh..
Sometimes feelings of regret arise not from our past actions, but from our non-actions. Have you ever regretted not taking a vacation, staying stuck in a dead-end job, not attending college, not accepting a marriage proposal by who could've been you true match... or whatever? It may be too late to reverse those decisions, but you still have options. New opportunities are around you, at every corner, you just have to open your eyes and look for 'em.
We have to accept that our past mistakes are just that --- in the past? We oughta focus on today. Become aware of our future goals and desires. Setting clear intentions will help clear the path so that our life progresses with a freer heart and increased happiness :) The best is yet to come! Say it wiith me "the best is yet to come!" Believe it, you gotta believe it, if not whats the point then huh?! Remember, no one is perfect, including you, yes sir! Live today, yesterday dah lepas la beb!! ..keh keh.. When you can accept that, you are a new you everyday! You are happy everyday and you will have zero regret!
Hey do you know that you never really learn to swear until you learn to drive??!! true huh?! i think so!! ..ngeh ngeh..